JINRI,YIWEISINIANJIXUESHENGXIEDE“DAJIAFANGFALUN”,HUOLE!ZHEINIANTOU,DAGEJIADOUYOUJIANGJIULE。
DAJIADOUYOUSHENMEJIANGJIUNI?ZHEIWEIXUESHENGJIWOMENFENXIDETOUTOUSHIDAO。
SHOUXIAN,DAJIAYAOXUANDUIREN。QICI,DAJIADESHIJIANYEHENZHONGYAO,“FANGXUESHIJIANSHIDAJIADEBUERZHIXUAN”。ZUIHOU,“DAJIADEQINGZHONGKONGZHICAISHIDAYICHANGHAOJIADEJINGSUI”。
JIEWEIHUAFENGYIZHUAN,HUYUBUYAODAJIA,JIZAIYILIAOZHIWAI,YOUZAIQINGLIZHIZHONG。ZHENGPIANZUOWENLUOJIQINGXI,YUYANBIAODAQIADAOHAOCHU,YOUMOGANSHIZU。
WANGYOUMENDOUBEIZHEIGEXIAOXUESHENGDEYOUMODOULELE,FENFENWEITADIANZAN。CONGZHEIGEXIAOXUESHENGSHENSHANG,WOMENKEYIKANCHUYOUYOUMOGANDEHAIZIHUISHANSHANFAGUANG。TABUJINZENGJIALEZIJISHENGHUODELEQU,YEJIBIERENDAILAIHUANLE。ZHEIYANGDEHAIZIZAICHENGZHANGDEDAOLUSHANGHUIYOUQUFACAIPIAODEPENGYOU,TAMENWANGWANGHUIHUODEGENGDADECHENGJIU。
YOUYIJUHUASHUODEHAO,HAOKANDEPINANGQIANPIANYILV,YOUQUDELINGHUNWANLITIAOYI。NENGZAIPINGDANDESHENGHUOZHONGZHAODAOLEQUDERENNANDE,NENGBAZHEIFENKUAILECHUANDIJIBIERENGENGSHINANDE。
YOUMOGAN,SHIGEZHENGUIQIESHECHIDEPINZHI。PEIYANGCHUYOUYOUMOGANDEHAIZISHIZUIGAOJIBIEDEFUYANG。
一、有幽默感的孩子,运气不会太差
YIGEBANLIRENYUANZUIHAODEHAIZIWANGWANGBUSHICHENGJIDIYIDE,ERSHIZUIYOUQUDE。JIEJIEDEERZISHANGXIAOXUESINIANJI,CHENGJIZHONGDENG,DANMEINIANXUANBANZHANGTADOUSHIPIAOSHUZUIGAODE。
YOUCIPEITAQUSHANGSHUFAXINGQUBAN,ZHEICIKEDEZHUTISHILINMOWANGXIZHIDE《LANTINGXU》。ZUIHOU,ZAIZHANSHISHI,YIGENVSHENGXIEDEWAIWAINIUNIUDE,GENGZAOGAODESHIHAIYOUYIGEDAMODIANHENXIANYAN。
HAIZIMENXIAOZHEDUIZHEZHEIFUZUOPINZHIZHIDIANDIAN,YOULIANGGENANSHENGHAIXIAOSHENGYILUN:“TAZENMEXIECHENGZHEIYANG。”TINGDAOXIAOSHENGHEYILUN,ZHEIGENVSHENGZHOUZHEMEI,DIZHETOU,JUBUBUANDICUOZHEYIJIAO。ZHEISHI,JIEJIEDEERZIYIBENZHENGJINGDISHUO:“XIEDEJIUSHIBIWANGXIZHICHAYIDIANMA!”
DAJIATINGTAZHEIMEYISHUO,DOULELE,NEIGENVSHENGYEXIAOLE。TAYONGJIZHIHEYOUMOHUAJIELENEIGENVSHENGDEGANGA,HOULAITAMENCHENGWEILEHAOPENGYOU。
YOUMOGANSHIQINGSHANGDEZHONGYAOZUCHENGBUFEN。JUYOUYOUMOGANDEHAIZIDADUOHUOPOKAILANG,RENJIGUANXIYEJIAOHAO,TAMENZUOSHENMESHIQING,GENGRONGYIDEDAOTONGBANDEZHICHI。ZHEIYANGDEHAIZIZHANGDAZAIZHICHANGSHANGHUIYOUGENGQIANGDEJINGZHENGLI。
QIANXIETIANKANJIANYIPIANBAODAO,MEIGUOGUOJIAHANGKONGHANGTIANJUNASAZHAOPINHUOXINGYUHANGYUAN,YOUGETESHUDEYAOQIUJINGSHI——AIKAIWANXIAO。
YUANLAI,WEILAIDEHUOXINGZHILVZHANGDALIANGNIAN,YIMING“YOUMOGAOXIAO”HUO“BANJIXIAOCHOU”YIYANGDERENJIARU,KEYIBANGZHUTUANDUIDAIDONGQIFEN,NINGJURENXIN,QUEBAORENWUWANCHENG。
YOUCIKEJIAN,YOUMODERENDAONALIDOUSHIZUISHOUQUFACAIPIAODE。ZHEIJIUSHIYOUMODEMEILI!
SANBAILIUSHIXING,XINGXINGCHUZHUANGYUAN。ZHANGXUEFENGPINGJIE《7FENZHONGBAOXIAOJIEDU34SUO985GAOXIAO》ZOUHONGWANGLUO,YINWEIZAIJIANGKEZHONGJINGCHANGBENGCHU“DUANZI”、“YUCHUJINGREN”,BEIXUESHENGGUANYI“KAOYANJIEXIANGSHENGDASHI”DECHENGHAO。
TONGYANGDEZHISHI,YONGYOUMODEFANGSHIJIANGCHULAIJIUYOUMOFABANDEXIYINLI,SUOYI,NIYAOXIANGXINYOUMODELILIANG!
YOUMO,ZAIZHICHANGSHANGSHIYIZHONGRUANSHILI。YOUMONENGBIAOXIANGOUTONGZHEDEFENGDU、SUYANG,TANENGYIHUIXIEHUAJIDEYUYANXINGSHI,BIAODACHUYIDINGDESIXIANGNEIHAN。SHIRENMENZAIQINGSONGHUOPODEQIFENZHONGXUEXI、SHENGHUO、GONGZUO。
YOUYOUMOGANDEHAIZI,YONGYOUGENGHEXIEDERENJIGUANXI,HUIYOUQUFACAIPIAODEJIHUIQUSHIXIANZIJIDEMENGXIANG。
二、有趣的父母,才能培养出有幽默感的孩子
XINLIXUEJIABIAOSHI,YOUMOGAN30%LAIZITIANSHENGDEXINGGE,70%SHIHOUTIANPEIYANGCHULAIDE。
ZHUMINGXUEZHE、ZUOJIAZHOUGUOPINGSHUO:“HAIZITIANRANDIJUYOUYOUMODEQINGXIANG,DANZHEIZHONGQINGXIANGXUYAODEDAOGULI,CAINENGCHONGFENDIZHANXIANCHULAI,ERZHEIJIUSHIFUMUDEZERENLE。RUGUOYIGEHAIZITIANFUZHENGCHANGQUEBUHUIYOUMO,ZERENYIDINGZAIDAREN。”
NEIMEGAIRUHEPEIYANGHAIZIDEYOUMOGANNI?BUFANGSHISHIYIXIAJIZHONGFANGFA。
1.抓住黄金期,培养孩子的幽默感
ZISHENXINLIZIXUNSHI、YUERZHUANJIAXIAOLOULAOSHIZAI《ZIWOJUEXING,JIHAIZIZUIHAODEYUANSHENGJIATING》ZHONGBIAOSHI,PEIYANGHAIZIYOUMOGANDEZUIJIASHIQIJIUSHIHAITONGSHIQI。
HAIZIDESHENXINFAZHANJUYOUJIEDUANXING,ERTONGWANG,YOUMOGANDEFAZHANYEBUSHIYICUERJIUDE,WOMENYINGGAIGENJUMEIGEJIEDUANDEFAZHANGUILVYOUYISHIDIPEIYANGHAIZIDEYOUMOGAN。
(1)YINGERSHIQI(0-1SUI)
ZHEIGEJIEDUANBAOBAODEYOUMOGANZHUYAOTIXIANZAIZHITIDONGZUOSHANG,YINCI,ZHEIGEJIEDUANDEZHONGDIANJIUSHIDUOJINXINGHAOWANDEZHITIYOUXI,DUIZHEHAIZIDUZISHUOHUACHUIQI、DUDONGWUHUIBENSHIMONIDONGWUDEXINGTAI、DUIZHEHAIZIZUOGUILIANDENG,DOUSHIJIANDANDEDUANLIANHAIZIYOUMOGANDEFANGSHI。
(2)YOUERQI(1-3SUI)
DAGAICONG14—15GEYUEQI,CHUYUZHIXUMINGANQIDEHAIZIKAISHIWEIFANSHISHI、FANLUOJIDEXINGWEIERXIAO。TAMENKAISHILIJIESHENMESHI“CHANGTAI”,DANGWOMENYONGYIXIEFEICHANGTAIDEXINGSHILAISHUOHUA,BIRU,MOFANGXIAONIAODESHENGYINLAIDUHUIBEN,HAIZIJIUHUIBEIWOMENDOUXIAO。
ZAISHENGHUOZHONG,NIKEYIZUOYIXIEFANCHANGDESHIQINGLAIDOUXIAOHAIZI,BIRU,BAWAZI“DAI”ZIJIDESHOUSHANG,LIANSHANGLUCHUNANSHOUDEBIAOQING,HUOZHEBABAGUYIWEISHANGMAMAPIAOLIANGDESIJIN,MAMAGUYIDAISHANGBABACUDADENANSHISHOUBIAO。
YEZHENGSHICONG1SUIDAO1SUIBANZHIJIAN,BAOBAOKAISHIMOFANGDARENDEYOUMOXINGWEI——ZHEISHIYOUMOGANXINGCHENGDEDIYIBU。
SUOYI,MEIGUODEJIAZHANGWANGWANGMOXUHAIZIZHUANGMOZUOYANGDIDAISHANGYEYEDEDALIMAO,SHOUCHIGUAIZHANG,BUXINGPANSHAN,CONGMOFANGZHONGTIWEIYOUMODEKUAILE。
(3)XUELINGQIANQI(3-6SUI)
ZHEIGEJIEDUANDEHAIZISUIZHEYUYANNENGLIHECIHUILIANGDEBUDUANTIGAO,3SUIHOUHAIZIDEXIAODIANYUELAIYUEFASHENGZAIJIYUYUYANLIJIEDEWENZIYOUXISHANG。ZHEISHIHOUYAOJIJIHUIYINGHAIZIYOUMODEHUAYU,YEKEYIDUOJIHAIZIKANHUODUYOUMOQINGSONGDEGUSHI。
YANGLANJIUHENZHUZHONGPEIYANGHAIZIDEYOUMOGAN,TAJINGCHANGHEHEHAIZIZAIYIQIKANYOUQUDEGUSHISHU,ERQIEZAIJIASHI,ZHIYAOHAIZIMENSHUOCHUYOUMODEHUA,TAZONGSHIBAOYIKAIXINDEDAXIAO。
2.与孩子做朋友,陪孩子在“幽默感”中成长
JIAOYUZHUANJIAYINJIANLIZAINVERFANCUOSHI,BUHUIBANZHELIANPIPINGTA,ERSHIJINGCHANGDAQUTA“XIANGNIUDUNYIYANG”,YINWEITAMENCENGDUDAOYIGEGUANYUNIUDUNFANCUODEXIAOGUSHI。YINJIANLIYONGYOUMODEFANGSHIHUAJIECHONGTU,RANGYUERGENGQINGSONG,HAINENGQIANYIMOHUADIRANGHAIZIXIDEYOUMOGAN。
GUOMINZHUBOLIJIAQIQIANBUJIUBEIYIGEXIAOXUESHENGTIAOZHANLE。ZHEIGEMINGJIAOTIANTIANDEXIAOPENGYOU,QUANCHENGMOFANGLIJIAQIMAIHUODEYUQI、ZHITIDONGZUOHEBIAODA,WEIZIJIDEWENJULAILEYICHANG“ZHIBO”,YIXIAZIQUANWANGBAOHONG。
ZHEIYANGYIGEGAOGUAIDEHAIZIBEIHOUBIRANZHANZHEYOUQUDEFUMU。TADEBABAYESHIGE“XIJING”,GENERZIHEPAILEYIGEGUANYU“KAOSHIHOUJIAZHANGXUNHUA”DESHIPINYESHIRANGRENRENJUNBUJIN。
CONGYINJIANLIHETIANTIANBABAYUHAIZIXIANGCHUZHONG,KEYIKANCHU,TAMENFANGXIA“JIAZHANG”DEJIASHI,YONGPINGDENGDEZITAIYUHAIZIDUIHUA,YONGYOUMODEFANGSHIJIAOYUHAIZI,BINGQIEQUDELEHENHAODEXIAOGUO。
FUMUSHIHAIZIDEDIYIRENLAOSHI,FUMUYONGYOUMODETAIDUDUIDAISHENGHUO,QIANYIMOHUAZHONG,HAIZIYEHUIYONGLEGUANYOUMODETAIDUXIAODUIRENSHENG。
3.积累知识,给孩子的“幽默感”以才华
WANGHANZHUCHIFENGGEQINGSONGYOUMO,POSHOUGUANZHONGDEXIAI。TAZAI《TIANTIANXIANGSHANG》JIEMUZHONG,JINJUPINCHU:
“WOFUQINSHIJIANGSUREN,MUQINSHIHUNANREN,TAMENSHUOWOSHI‘JIANGHUREN’,ERQIEWOHAI‘CHANGSHAREN’(ZHANGSHAREN)。”
“DOUSHUOHUNYINSHIAIQINGDEFENMU,DANSHIYAOSHIMEIYOULEHUNYIN,AIQINGQIBUSHISIWUZANGSHENZHIDILEMA?”
ZHEIYANGXINSHOUNIANLAIDEYOUMOSHIZUDEHUA,BUSHIYICHAOYIXIJIUNENGYONGYOUDE,ERSHIZHANGQIWENHUAXUNTAOHEJIAOYUPEIYANGDEJIEGUO。
SHASHIBIYASHUO:“YOUMOHEFENGQUSHIZHIHUIDESHANXIAN。”
YOUMOGANSHIHENZHONGYAODERENZHIBIAOXIAN,CONGMINGDEHAIZICAIHUIDONGDEYINGYONGYOUMO。SUOYIZAISHENGHUOZHONG,FUMUKEYIPEIYANGHAIZIDUOKANSHU、LVYOU,ZENGZHANGJIANSHIHEDUANLIANYUYANBIAODA。
三、养出有幽默感的孩子,是最高级别的富养
ZHOUGUOPINGSHUO,QIANWANBUYAODIGUYOUMOPINZHIDEJIAZHI,TASHIYIGERENDEZONGHESUZHIDETIXIAN,QIZHONGJIAOZHILEKAILANGDEXINGGE,DAGUANDEXIONGHUAI,MINRUIDEZHILI,ZHIHUIDERENSHENGTAIDU。RUGUOYIGERENDEYOUMOPINZHIZAIHAIZISHIQIDEDAOGULIHEFAZHAN,SUOYOUZHEIXIESUZHIDESHENGZHANGJIUYOULEYIGELIANGHAODEKAIDUAN。
YOUMOGANBUSHISHENGHUOBIXUPIN,QUESHIKEYIRANGSHENGHUOPINZHIDADATISHENGDESHECHIPIN。
FUYANGHAIZIBUSHIYAOZAIWUZHISHANGJITAZUIDADEMANZU,ERSHIYAOTADENEIXINBIANDEFENGFU,GENGNENGSHIYINGZHEIGESHEHUI。PEIYANGHAIZIDEYOUMOGANJIUSHIJIYUHAIZIXIAODUIRENSHENGDEYONGQIHEZHIHUI。
ZUOGEYOUQUDEFUMU,YANGCHUYOUYOUMOGANDEHAIZIBA!
YINWEI,ZHEICAISHIZUIGAOJIBIEDEFUYANG!