ZHENZHENGDEJINGDAIHUAKAI，BUSHIZHENDEFANGRENHAIZI，SHENMEDOUBUGUAN，ERSHIFUMUZAIXINTAISHANGYAOBAOCHIXIWANG，XIANGXINCHENGZHANGSHIYIGEHUANMANDEGUOCHENG，GUANCHABINGJIENAHAIZICHENGZHANGDEBUTONGJIEZOU，YINCAISHIJIAO。
JINXIENIAN，FANGYANGHEKUAILEJIAOYUFEICHANGSHENGXING。
“MEIGEHAIZIDOUSHIYIKEHUADEZHONGZI，ZHIBUGUOMEIGERENDEHUAQIBUTONG。YOUDEHUA，YIKAISHIJIUHUIHENCANLANDIZHANFANG，YOUDEHUA，XUYAOMANZHANGDEDENGDAI。”
ZHEIJUHUAXIANGXINFUMUMENDOUBUMOSHENG。
DANTACHANGBEIRENQUJIECHENG：FANGYANGHAIZI，SHUNQIZIRAN，HUSHILEMEIYISHUHUACONGZHONGXIADAOZHANFANG，LIBUKAIYANGGUANGDEMUYU、YULUDEZIRUN，HAIYOUMOMOGENGYUNDESHENYING。
JIUXIANGHENDUORENGUCHUIDE“KUAILEJIAOYU”，ZHIKANDAOLEKUAILE，QUEHULVELEJIAOYU。
CHUFADIANSHIHAODE，DANZAIYOUXIESHIQINGSHANGJIAOWANGGUOZHENG，BIRUSHUOXUEXI、XIGUANDENG，HAIZISHUOZENYANGJIUZENYANG，ZHEISHIHENBUFUZERENDE。
HAIZIZHONGJIUHAISHIHAIZI，HENDUOSHIHOUHAISHIXUYAOTUIYIBADE，QIANWANBUYAORANGHAIZIRENSHENGDEDIYICIFANGQI，LAIDEZHEIMEZAO，NEIMEJIANDAN。
LIUHUANCENGJINGZAIYICICAIFANGZHONGTANJIZIJINVERDEJIAOYUWENTISHI，CHONGMANWANXIZHIYI：
“WONVERYINLEPINWEITINGGAODE，TADEYINLEGANWULITEBIEHAO，YOUZHEIFANGMIANTIANFUDEHAIZI，HAISHIKEYITUIYIBA。
WOHEWOTAITAIJUEDEDUIHAIZIYINGGAICONGXIAOFENGXINGKUAILEJIAOYU，BIEQIANGPOHAIZIZUOZIJIBUXIHUANDESHIQING，SUOYIYIZHIMEIYOUPOSHITAXUEZHEIXIENEIXIE，XIANZAIWOJUEDEYOUDIANHOUHUI。”
TIANXIAFUMU，WUBUXIWANGZIJIDEHAIZISHIKUAILEDE，SHEBUDEHAIZI，WANGWANGJIUSUIHAIZIQULE。DANSHIZHEIYANGDEFANGREN，DENGDAOHAIZIZHANGDAYOUSHIJIUHUIBIANCHENGHUIHEN。
01、给孩子过多的“自由”，是某种意义上的不负责
WORENSHIYIWEIJIAZHANGPENGYOU，JINGCHANGZIHAODISHUO：“WOBUXIANGJIHAIZITAIDUODEYALI，ZHIXIANGTAYOUGEKUAILEDETONGNIAN，PINGSHIBUZENMEBAOXINGQUBAN、FUDAOBAN，HAIZIJIUGAIWUYOUWULVDE!”
KANSIZIYOUDEAIQUERANGHAIZIZAIXIAOXUEJIEDUANDEXUEXIFEICHANGCHILI。
GUOJIGUANXIXUEYUANJIAOSHOUCHUYINCENGSHUO：“KUAILEJIAOYUHAOXIANGZHINENGKUAILENEIMEJINIAN，NISHUANGLENIDETONGNIAN，JIUYAOZAINIDEZHONGNIAN，NIDELAONIANFUCHUDAIJIA。”
WOSHENBIANYEYOUHENDUOKUAIBIYEDEHAIZICHANGCHANGAOHUI：
YIQIANBUZHIDAODUSHUDEYIYI，ZHENDEYAOBURUSHEHUILE，CAIZHIDAODANGCHULANGFEILEHENDUOSHIJIAN。JIARUNENGZHONGLAI，YINGGAIHUIGENGNULIBA。
ZHENGRUZUOJIASUXINCENGJINGQUANJIEHAIZI：“DUSHUBUKU，BUDUSHUDERENSHENG，CAIKU。”
ZUOFUMUDE，JINLIANGBUYAORANGHAIZIYOUZHEIYANGHOUHUIDESHIKE。
XUEXISHANGJIHAIZIGUODUODEZIYOUHUIZISHENGCHUXIEDAI，XINGWEISHANGYESHIRUCI。
JINGCHANGTINGJIAZHANGJICHUANGHUODEHAIZIKAITUO：“MEISHI，HAIXIAO，SHUDAZIRANZHI。ZHANGDAJIUHAOLE。”
HAOXIANGDENGDAOHAIZIDAOLEYIDINGDENIANJI，ZIRANJIUZHIDAOZIJIGAIZUOSHENME，BUGAIZUOSHENME。
SHISHINI，HENDUOHAIZIZAIBEIJIYULEZIYOUZHIHOU，XINGWEICHANSHENGLEPIANCHA，TEBIESHIQINGCHUNQIDEHAIZI，GEZHONGWENTIJIZHONGBAOFA，WULUNFUMUZENMESHUOHAIZIDOUBUTING，YINWEIHAIZIYIJINGCUOGUOLEJIAOYUDEZUIJIASHIJIAN，ZISI、FANGZONG、WUSHIGUIZE、RENXINGDENGWENTIYUELAIYUENANJIUZHENG。
JIHAIZIZIYOUCHENGZHANGDEKONGJIANSHIMEICUO，DANZIYOUSHIYOUBIANJIEDE，FUMUXUYAOTIQIANJIAOJIHAIZIDULI、GUIJUHEYIDINGFANWEINEIDEZIWOFUZE。
AIHEZUNZHONGSHIHAODEJIAOYU，DANBUSHIQUANBU。
02、教育，不要总是指望孩子“自觉”
ZAIWOMENSHENBIAN，YOUERYUANZIYUANWANG，YOUXUDUOHAIZIMANZUYUYANQIANLIANJIADEKUAILE，SHUADUANSHIPIN，SHUAWEIBO，WANWAN“WANGZHE”YOUMASHANGBENFU“CHIJI”ZHANCHANG。
CHANGCHANG1GEXIAOSHIDEZUOYE，FEIDEDAOWANSHANG10DIANCAINENGWANCHENG；SHUOHAOMEITIANYUEDUBANXIAOSHI，JIANCHIBULEJITIANJIUYOUWANYOUXIQULE；BAOLEXINGQUBAN，XUEJITIANJIUBUXIANGQULE.......
SHIJIANDUIHAIZIDOUSHIGONGPINGDE，XUEXIDELUSHANG，TOULANDEHAIZIHUIYUELAIYUELAN，JIANCHIDEHAIZIHUIYUELAIYUEYOUXIU。
QIANDUANSHIJIAN，WANGSHANGYOUWEIXIAOXUESHENGDEZUOYEBENZOUHONGWANGLUO，BENZISHANGYISHOUPIAOLIANGZI，ZIJIGONGZHENGDEXIANGYINSHUATI。
HAIZIMEITIANDUANZUOZAIZHUOQIANLIANZIYOUYINIANBANSHIJIAN，DUIZIJIYAOQIUHENYANGE，XIEZHIQIANRENZHENGUANCHAZIDEJIEGOU。
YONGTAMAMADEHUALAISHUO：“ZILVXINGHENQIANG 。”
XUDUOFUMUYIHUO：WEISHENMEBIERENJIADEHAIZIZONGSHIZHEIMEZIJUE？WOJIAHAIZIYONGYUANBUZHIDAOZHUDONG？
DUOXINGSHIRENDEBENXING，HAIZIYEBULIWAI。
HAIZIHAIXIAODESHIHOUBIEZHIWANGTANENGZIJUE，MIANDUIDIANSHI、SHOUJI、YOUXI、LINGSHI.....DARENDOUHENNANBAOCHIKEZHI，GENGHEKUANGJISUIHAIZI。
HAIZIZAIYANGCHENGZILVZIJUEDEQIANQI，KAODEJIUSHIFUMUJIANDU。
ZHEIZHONGJIANDUZHUYAOSHIXUEXIHESHENGHUOXIGUANSHANGDEJIANDU，DANGHAIZIYANGCHENGLEHAODEXIGUAN，HOUMIANDELUCAIYOUKENENGHAOZOU。
FANGRENBUGUAN，HAIZHIWANGHAIZIZIJUESHIBUKENENGDE。
03，优秀的孩子，离不开父母背后的付出
YOUXIUDEHAIZI，DOULIBUKAIFUMUZAIBEIHOUMOMODEZHICHIHEFUCHU。
JINIANQIAN，YIBU《SHUAIJIAOBA!BABA》FENGMIQUANGUO，YINGPIANZHONGDEBABAFEICHANG“WUQING”，MEITIANDOUBIZHEJIEMEILIANGLIANXISHUAIJIAO，XUDUORENXINTENGHAIZI，QUEHULVELEBABAWEICIFUCHUDENULI。ZHENGSHIZHEIFEN“WUQING”DEFUCHU，RANGLIANGGENVHAITAOGUOLEZHONGSHENGYUGUOWANPIAOPENWEIWUDESUMING。
BABADEYUANJIAN，NVERDENULI，CAIRANGTAMENDEWEILAIYOULEXUANZEDEJIHUI。
SHIJIESHANGMEIYOUSHENMECHENGGONGKEYIBUFEICHUIHUIZHILIJIUKEYIHUODE，YANGCHUYIGEYOUXIUDEHAIZIYESHI。
DANGNIXIANMUBIERENJIAHAIZIZUOWENXIEDEHAOSHI，QUEBUZHIDAOBEIHOUDEFUMUZAOZAIHAIZIJISUIJIUKAISHIQINZIGONGDU，LIULIDEYUYANBIAODASHIJIBAIBENTONGSHUZIRUNDEJIEGUO ；
DANGNIXIANMUBIERENJIAHAIZIXUEXIBUYONGCAOXINSHI，QUEBUZHIDAOBEIHOUDEFUMUWEILEPEIYANGHAIZIHAODEXUEXIXIGUANXIALEDUOSHAOGONGFU。
DANGNIXIANMUBIERENJIAHAIZIQINQISHUHUAYANGYANGJINGTONG，QUEBUZHIDAOBEIHOUDEFUMUDUOSHAOCIFENGYUWUZUDIJIESONG，DUOSHAOGEWANSHANGZAIRENZHUPIQI，NAIXINDIPEILIAN.....
JIAOYU，YEXUYAOFUMUDEYONGXINHENULI。
YEXUHAIZIHUIBAOYUAN："WEISHENMEWOMAZONGSHIZHEIYANGGUANZHEWO？”DENGDAOTAZHANGDA，ZHONGJIANGZHIDAOFUMUDEYIPIANKUXIN。
TAOXINGZHICENGSHUO：“WOMENDUIYUERTONGYOULIANGZHONGJIDUANDEXINLI，DOUDUIERTONGYOUHAI。YISHIHUSHI；ERSHIQIWANGTAIQIE。HUSHIZERENQIXIANGMAOCAOYIYANGZISHENGZIMIE；QIWANGTAIQIEBUMIANYAMIAOZHUZHANG，FANERCUQIYAOZHE。”
LENGMODIBIPOHEYIWEIFANGRENHAIZI，DOUSHILIANGZHONGJIDUAN。
ZUOFUMUZUINANDESHIZAIZHEILIANGZHEZHIJIAN，ZHAODAOPINGHENG，RANGHAIZIZAIJUDADEXUEYEYALIMIANQIAN，RENGRANKEYIYONGBAOKUAILE。
ZHENZHENGDEJINGDAIHUAKAI，BUSHIZHENDEFANGRENHAIZI，SHENMEDOUBUGUAN，ERSHIFUMUZAIXINTAISHANGYAOBAOCHIXIWANG，XIANGXINCHENGZHANGSHIYIGEHUANMANDEGUOCHENG，GUANCHABINGJIENAHAIZICHENGZHANGDEBUTONGJIEZOU，YINCAISHIJIAO。
KEYIYANLI，DANYAOYOUNAIXIN，KEYICIAI，DANYAOYOUWEIXIN，YONGXINJIAOGUAN，ZONGHUIYOUHUAKAIDEYITIAN。
