1.YINDAOJIAZHANGLEJIEHAIZIZILINENGLIQUEFADEYUANYINHEPEIYANGHAIZIZILINENGLIDEZHONGYAOXING。
2.XUEXIZENYANGPEIYANGHAIZIDEZILINENGLIDEFANGFA。
ZHONGDIANNANDIAN：ZHIDAOPEIYANGHAIZIZILINENGLIDEZHONGYAOXING，ZHANGWOPEIYANGHAIZIZILINENGLIDEFANGFA。
HUODONGZHUNBEI：PPTKEJIAN
HUODONGGUOCHENG：
GEWEIJIAZHANGPENGYOU，DAJIAWANSHANGHAO!QUFACAIPIAODAJIALAICANJIAWOMENJINTIANDEJIAZHANGKECHENGHUODONG。
YI、JIESHAOWEISHENMEYAOKAISHEJIAZHANGKECHENG
YINWEIHAIZIRANGWOMENYOUYUANYUGEWEIJIAZHANGXIANGSHI，JINWANYESHIYINWEIHAIZI，WOMENYOUZUOZAILEYIQI。HAIZISHIFUMUAIQINGDEJIEJING，SHIFUMUSHENGMINGDEYANXU，JIATINGSHIHAIZIDEDIYISUOXUEXIAO，FUMUSHIHAIZIDEDIYIRENLAOSHI，YESHIHAIZIYISHENGDELAOSHI，SHIYIFENYONGYUANDOUBUHUITUIXIUDEZHIYE。JIAOSHISHANGGANGXUYAOZHIYEPEIXUN、GONGRENXUYAOJISHUPEIXUN、NONGMINZHONGDIYEXUYAOJINGYANDECHUANSHOU，WULUNSHINAYIZHONGZHIYE，DOUXUYAOPEIXUNSHANGGANG，WEIDUFUMUZHEIGEZHIYE，CHULEZIXUE，CONGGUZHIJINDOUSHIZAIMEIYOURENHEPEIXUNDEQINGKUANGXIARENZHILE。
YOUDUOSHAOFUMUZHIDAO，HAIZIGANGCHUSHENGSHIXIHUANKANHEIBAIXIANGJIAODEDIFANG，ERBUSHIRENMENTONGCHANGRENWEIDECAIQIU？YINGYOUERHELETANGSHUIHOUWEISHENMEJUJUEZAIHEBAIKAISHUI？TAWEISHENMEAICHISHOU，WEISHENMEDUIXIXIAODEDONGXIGANXINGQUDENGDENGYIXILIEDEWENTI，ZHEIXIEWENTIBEIHOUDEYUANYINSHISHENME，WOMENYINGGAIRUHEBANGZHUHAIZI。WOMENKAISHEJIAZHANGKECHENGJIUSHIYAOHEJIAZHANGMENYIQIXUEXIRUHEJIAOYUHAIZI，RUHEZUOYIMINGHEGEDEFUMU。
ER、XINSHANGGUSHI，DIAODONGJIAZHANGTINGKEDEQINGXU
XIAMIANWOXIANHEDAJIAFENXIANGYIGEGUSHI，GUSHIDEMINGZISHI《WOMENNENGYONGYOUHAIZIDUOSHAONIAN》。（BOFANGKEJIAN）
ZONGJIE：MEIDANGKANDAOZHEIGEGUSHI，WODOUHUITEBIEDEGANDONG，WOMENNENGPEIHAIZIDUOSHAONIAN，WOMENYAOJIHAIZIZENYANGDEPEIBAN，ZHEIXIEDOUSHIWOMENFUMUYAOSIKAODEWENTI!
SAN、KAISHIBANJIZHUTIHUODONG
HAOLE，XIANZAIWOMENKAISHIJINTIANWANSHANGDEZHUTIHUODONG，JINTIANWANSHANGWOMENKAIKEXUEXIDEZHUTISHI：“ZENYANGPEIYANGHAIZIZHENGQUEDESHENGHUOZILINENGLI”。
（YI）SHENMESHISHENGHUOZILINENGLI？
1、NINRENWEIHAIZIDEZILINENGLISHIZHINAXIENENGLI？（QINGJIAZHANGTANTAN）
CONGGANGCAIJIAZHANGMENDEJIAOLIUZHONG，WOFAXIANJIAZHANGDUIYOUERDELEJIEHAISHIBIJIAOQUANMIANDE，DANYECUNZAIZHEXIEXUDEBUZU。XIAMIANWOMENYIQILAIKANKAN，SHENMESHISHENGHUOZILINENGLI，HAIZIXUYAODUANLIANNAXIESHENGHUOZILINENGLI。
ZILINENGLIJIANDANDESHUOJIUSHIZIWOFUWU，ZIJIZHAOGUZIJI，TASHIYIGERENYINGGAIJUBEIDEZUIJIBENDESHENGHUOJINENG。YIBANBAOKUOYIXIAJIGEFANGMIAN：
（1）ZAISHENGHUOSHANGNENGZIJICHULIRICHANGSHIWU。RU：NENGZIJICHIFAN、CHUANYI、CHUANXIE、SHANGCESUO、QUFANGWANJUDENG。
（2）NENGCHULIJIANDANDERENJIGUANXI，DULIJIEJUEYIXIEWENTI。RU：NENGHEMOSHENGXIAOPENGYOUJIAOPENGYOU、NENGZAIBUDAJIADEQINGKUANGXIACHULIHUOBANZHIJIANDEMAODUNCHONGTU、NENGHELAOSHIBIAODAZIJIDEXUYAODENG。
（3）XINTAISHANGNENGDULICHENGSHOUGEZHONGYALI。RU：LIKAIJIAZHANGDUZISHIYINGMOSHENGDEHUANJING，FANLECUOJIESHOUPIPINGDENGDENG。
（4）ZAIXUEXISHANGNENGDULISIKAO，DULILIJIE。RU：LAOSHITICHUWENTISHIHUIYOUXIAOPENGYOUXIANHUIDA，ERYOUDEXIAOPENGYOUGENZHEXUESHUOQIANMIANXIAOPENGYOUDEHUIDADENG。
2、NINDEHAIZIZAIJIADOUHUIZUONAXIESHIQING？（JIAZHANGJIAOLIUHOUJIAOSHIZAISHENRUTIWEN：TAHAIHUIZUONAXIESHIQING？NINSHIZHERANGHAIZIXIYIFUHUODIEBEIZIMA？WEISHENME？）
（ER）PEIYANG“ZILINENGLI”ZAIHAIZICHENGZHANGZHONGDEZUOYONG
ZIZHUZILISHIJIANKANGRENGEDEBIAOXIANZHIYI，TADUIHAIZIDESHENGHUO、XUEXIZHILIANGYIJICHENGNIANHOUSHIYEDECHENGGONGHEJIATINGSHENGHUODEMEIMAN，DOUJUYOUFEICHANGZHONGYAODEYINGXIANG，ERCONGXIAOPEIYANGHAIZIDESHENGHUOZILINENGLIZEYOUZHUYUDULIZIZHURENGEDEXINGCHENG。XIAOSHIHOUZILINENGLIQIANGDEHAIZI，ZHANGDAHOUYOUZERENGAN，ZUOSHIYOUZIXINXIN。ERXIAOSHIHOUZILINENGLICHADEHAIZI，YOUYUHENSHAOZUOSHIQING，MIANDUIWENTIYIKAOFUMU，QUESHAOTANSUODEJINGSHENHEJIEJUEWENTIDEJIJIZHUDONGXING。
ZUOYONG1：“ZILI”SHISHENGCUNDEJIBENNENGLI。
QIANDUANSHIJIANKANGUOYIGESHIPIN，XIANGXINYOUDEJIAZHANGYEHEWOYIYANGGUANZHUGUO。JINTIANWOMENZAILAIYIQIXINSHANGYIBIAN。（SHIPINYANSHI：HENANXIAOHUOESI）。
JIAOSHIZONGJIE：KANWANSHIPIN，BUZHIDAJIAYOUSHENMEGANSHOU？（JIAZHANGJIAOLIU）
BUHUIZILIJIUBUNENGDULISHENGHUO，BUNENGDULISHENGHUOJIUHUIYINGXIANGGONGZUOHEXUEXI。ZHEIGEXIAOHUOZIHUOHUODEESI，ZHEISHISHEIDECUO？GUIGENJIEDIYUANYINZAIFUMU。YINCI，XIANDAIJIATINGJIAOYUZHONG，HAIZIZILINENGLIDEPEIYANGRENGSHIJIAZHANGYINGGAIMIQIEGUANZHUDEWENTI。
ZUOYONG2：YOULIYUPEIYANGHAIZIDEDULIYISHI。
ZUOYONG3：YOULIYUPEIYANGHAIZIDEZILIXIGUAN。
ZUOYONG4：YOULIYUSHIYINGYOUERYUANJITISHENGHUO。
ZUOYONG5：NENGCUJINYOUERDAXIAOJIROUQUNHEDONGZUODEXIEDIAOXINGDEFAZHAN。
（SAN）YOUERSHENGHUOZILINENGLIDEXIANZHUANG
ZHUMINGJIAOYUJIACHENHEQINXIANSHENGTICHU:“FANSHIERTONGZIJINENGZUODE，YINGDANGRANGTAZIJIQUZUO”；FANSHIERTONGZIJIXIANGDE，YINGDANGRANGTAZIJIQUXIANG。
HENDUOFUMUZONGYIWEIHAIZIXIAO、BUHUIZUODENGLIYOUBURANGHAIZIQUZUO：PACHIBUBAO，DARENWEI；PANONGSHIYIFU，DARENJIXISHOU、XILIAN；PALANGFEISHIJIAN，DARENJICHUANYIFU……ZHEIYANGDEJIEGUOZHIHUIRANGHAIZIXIGUANLEDENG、XIGUANLEKAO，ERBUSHIZIJIQUZUO，FANSHIYIKAOBIEREN，BUWEITARENZHEXIANG。
JIEXIALAIRANGWOMENLAIXINSHANGYIDUANABJU。（KEJIANTUPIANZHANSHIXIAOJIAOYADEA、BJU）
JIAOSHIZONGJIE1：AJUDEMAMAMEITINGDONGHAIZIDEHUHUAN“WOXIANGZIJICHUANYIFU”，ERSHIHUAIZHELIANAIZHIXINSHIWUJUXIDITIHAIZIZUO，ZAIHAIZIXIANGBANGSAODIDESHIHOUZHISHIWEIHAIZIDEDONGSHIERGANDAOGAOXING，YIJU“NIHAIMEISAOBAGAONI”TOULUCHULEDUIHAIZIDEBUXINREN，“ZHANGDALEZAISHUO”YOUYANWULEHAIZINENGLIDEFAZHAN。ZHEIWEIMAMAZONGJUEDEHAIZIZHANGDALE，HENDUOSHIQINGZIRANERRANJIUHUILE，KESHIMEIXIANGDAOZIJIDEXINGWEITIDAILEHAIZIDECHENGZHANG，YIZHIYUXIAOSHIHOUDE“WUWEIBUZHI”ZAOJIULEHOULAIDE“LISUOYINGDANG”,ZHEISHISHEIDECUO？JIAZHANGZHANGQIWUTIAOJIANDEBAOBANDAITI，RANGHAIZIXINGCHENGLEYIZHONGCUOWURENSHI：ZIJISUOYOUSHIQING，DOUHUIYOUFUMUBANGZHEGANZAICIJUJIEWEIKANDAOZHEIMANTIANFEIWUDEZANGYIFUHEMANGZUOYITUANDEJIAZHANG，BUZHIDAODAJIAXINLIYOUSHENMEGANXIANG?(QINGJIAZHANGTANTANZIJIZAIJIAZHONGYOUMEIYOUZHEIZHONGQINGKUANG)
JIAOSHIZONGJIE2：BJUZHONG，MAMATINGDONGLEHAIZICHENGZHANGDEYAOQIU，ZAIHAIZICHUXIANZIJICHUANYIFU、ZUOJIAWUDEXIANGFASHI，SHUNYINGHAIZIZIWOCHENGZHANGYAOQIU，FANGSHOURANGHAIZIQUZUO，BINGTICHUBUHUIDESHIHOUKEYIJIAOTA，JISHIDIBIAOYANG，RANGHAIZIDUIZIJIDENENGLICHONGMANLEXINXIN，QIANGSHANGDEXIAOHONGHUAYOUWEIHAIZICHIZHIYIHENGDIZUOSHITIGONGLEDONGLI，YIBUBUSUZAOLEHAIZIDULIZIZHUDENENGLI，ZUIZHONGRANGWOMENKANDAOLENEILINGRENXINWEIDEYIMU。
QISHIZAIJIATINGZHONG，HENDUOWENTIDECHUXIANBINGFEIJIAZHANGDEBENYI，DANSHICONGMEIYOURENGAOSUJIAZHANGYINGGAIZENMEZUO，JIANJIANDEJIAZHANGYEJIUXIGUANRUCILE。
（SI）ZUAIYOUERSHENGHUOZILINENGLIFAZHANDEYUANYIN
HAIZILAIZIBUTONGDEJIATING，JIATINGBEIJING、CHENGZHANGHUANJINGGEBUXIANGTONG，HAIZIZILINENGLIDESHUIPINGYEBUJINXIANGTONG，NEIMEXINGCHENGZILINENGLICHAYIDEYUANYINSHISHENMENI，WOMENLAIFENXIYIXIA。
1、ZUBEIDESHEBUDE
（1）为了帮孩子的父母减轻负担，爷爷奶奶承担起了照顾孩子的责任。年轻的时候爷爷奶奶由于需要工作维持生计，小学学习网，所以没有过多的时间照顾自己的孩子，等到照顾孙子的时候，就特别的疼爱，也就是人们常说的“隔辈亲”，对孩子的照顾事无巨细，对孩子的要求无限满足，甚至孩子还没要求呢，就已经准备好了。（经常听到很多家长说，孩子到了1岁半，甚至2岁还不能表达清楚自己想要什么，这是都与给孩子的提前满足是有关系的，他不需要说话就能得到满足，还说什么呢）
