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家庭教育案例:家教是“慢艺术”

来源:儿童网 人气: 发布时间:2020-07-11
家庭教育案例:家教是“慢艺术”,有这么一个故事:朋友去远方,把他在山中的庭院给我留守。朋友是个勤快人,把院子里的杂草除得干干净净。而我却有些懒,除了偶尔扫一下落叶,那些杂草却不去拔

YOUZHEIMEYIGEGUSHI:PENGYOUQUYUANFANG,BATAZAISHANZHONGDETINGYUANJIWOLIUSHOU。PENGYOUSHIGEQINKUAIREN,BAYUANZILIDEZACAOCHUDEGANGANJINGJING。ERWOQUEYOUXIELAN,CHULEOUERSAOYIXIALUOYE,NEIXIEZACAOQUEBUQUBA。CHUCHUNYUANZILIMAOCHULEJICUCAO,HOULAIZHANGCHUJIZHULALAN,JUSHUO,YIKELALANZHISHAOZHIWANYUYUAN。PENGYOUHENCHIJING,TANXISHUO:“WOJIHUHUIDIAOLEYIZHONGQIHUAA,RUGUOWONENGNAIXINDIDENGNEIXIEZACAOZHANGDA,KANKANTAMENSHISHENME,NEIMEJINIANQIANWOJIUNENGFAXIANLALANLE。”

ZHEIGEGUSHIZHONG,HENMINGXIANDIXIANGWOMENCHANSHULEYIGEDAOLI,DUOYIXIEDENGDAIYUQIWANG,NIHUIJINGXIDIFAXIANYIWAIDESHOUHUO。

XUYAODENGDAIDEBUJINJINSHIPEIYUHUAMU,JIAOYUYESHIRUCI。JIAOYUBENSHENSHIYIGEMANHUO、XIHUO,TASHISHENGMINGQIANYIMOHUADEGUOCHENG。SUOWEIRUNWUXIWUSHENG,JIAOYUDEBIANHUASHIJIQIHUANMAN、XIWEIDE,TAXUYAOSHENGMINGDECHENDIAN,XUYAOXIXINDEGENGZUO。YIHANDESHI,XIANDAISHEHUIDE“KUAIJIEZOU”ZHUJIANRANGWOMENDAJIASHIQULE“MAN”DENENGLI,SHIDEJIAZHANGMENZAIJIAOYUHAIZIDEGUOCHENGZHONGYESHIQULE“MAN”DENENGLI。

案例一:“不能让孩子输在起跑线上”

WANSHANGLIYUANSHI,YOUJIGEHAIZIDEJIAZHANGLAIDEWAN。WEILEBURANGHAIZIJIAOJINANGUO,WOBIANCHENGDANQI“MAMA”DEJIAOSE,HEHAIZIMENWANQILE《ZOUMIGONG》。ZHEISHIQUJIAO“KUAILESHUBA”ZHONGDEYIBENSHOUHAIZIXIAIDESHUJI,SHUZHONGYOUXUDUOYIZHIXIAOYOUXI。WANDEGUOCHENGZHONGWOFAXIANLIANGLIANGDESIWEITEBIEMINRUI,SIKAODEMIGONGLUXIANBUJINKUAIERQIEDUO。DAITAMAMALAISHI,WOBIANYUTAJIAOLIU:“LIANGLIANGDEXIAONAODAIGUATINGLINGHUOA!”LIANGLIANGMAMAXIAODAO:“ZHANGLAOSHI,BUPANIXIAOHUA,WODEWENHUABUGAO,KEBUNENGRANGHAIZISHUZAIQIPAOXIANSHANG,JIUZHOUMOSONGTAQUPEIXUNBANLIANXI。ZUIJINZAISHANGYIGESIWEIXUNLIANBAN。KANLAITAHAIMEIBAIXUE……”ERZAIYIPANGDEFEIFEIMAMAYEGANKAIDAO:“WOJIAFEIFEIHAOXIANGHUAHUABUXING,WOKANJIANBANLIHAIZIDEZUOPINZHANSHI,TAHUADEBURUBIEDEHAIZI,WODEBATASONGQUXUEHUAHUA……”

反思

趣发彩票 SIKAOLIANGWEIJIAZHANGDEHUA,WOYEZHESHIFAXIANLEDANGQIANJIAOYUZHONGDEYIGEWUQU。RUJINJIAZHANGDADUOWANGZICHENGLONG、WANGNVCHENGFENGXINQIE,DOUXIWANGZIJIDEHAIZIXUEDEDUOYIDIAN,HUIDEDUOYIDIAN,JIANGLAINENGGOUSHIYINGSHEHUI。YINCI,“BUYAORANGHAIZISHUZAIQIPAOXIANSHANG”CHENGWEIXUDUOJIAZHANGDEJIAOYUXINTIAO。ZAICIGUANNIANQUDONGXIA,HAIZIMENCANJIADEPEIXUNBANJIUDUOLE,HUAHUA、SHIZI、GANGQIN、WUDAO……PEIXUNYIGEJIEYIGE,MEIYOUJIEJIARI,MEIYOUZIYOUHUODONGSHIJIAN,ZHOUMOANPAIDEMANMANDANGDANG。

策略

趣发彩票 QISHIMEIYIGEHAIZIDOUYOUBUTONGDERENSHENGQIDIAN,YOUBUTONGDEYICHUANJIYINHESHENGZHANGHUANJING。SUOYI,BUTONGDEHAIZIBENJIUBUZAITONGYI“QIPAOXIAN”SHANG,YOURUHEHUIYOU“QIPAOXIAN”SHANGDESHUYINGKEYANNI?JIUJIAOYUHAIZIERYAN,JIAZHANGSHOUXIANYAOCHONGFENLEJIEHAIZIDETEDIAN,LEJIEHAIZIYUZHONGBUTONGDE“QIPAOXIAN”,ZAICIJICHUSHANGGENJUHAIZIDETEDIANLAIPEIYANG。BIRU,RUGUOFEIFEIMAMAXIANGRANGHAIZIXUEHUAHUA,NEIMESHOUXIANYAOKAOLVFEIFEISHIBUSHIXIHUANHUAHUA,ZUNZHONGHAIZIDEYIYUANHEXINGQUBIRANGHAIZIBEIDONGXUEXIGENGYOUYIYI。

案例二:“爬行的蜗牛”

趣发彩票 TONGYANGSHIWANSHANGLIYUANSHIJIAN。

HONGHONGJIANMAMALAILEHENKAIXIN,YIXIAZIPUDAOLEMAMADEHUAIZHONG。

趣发彩票 MAMA:“BAOBEI,NIJINTIANXUELESHENMEYA?GAOSUMAMA。”

HONGHONG:“E……CHANGGE。”XIAOJIAHUOCEZHETOUXIANGLEHAOZHANGSHIJIAN。

MAMA:“NEICHANGDESHENMEYA?KUAIDIANXIANGYIXIANG。”

HONGHONG:“WOWANGLE……”

趣发彩票 MAMA:“NIZHEIHAIZI,XUESHENMEDOUWANGLE,NILAIGANSHENMEDE?”

反思

趣发彩票 YEXUZHEISHIYIGEPUBIANDEXIANXIANG,HENDUOFUMUGUANXINDESHIHAIZIXUELESHENMEZHONGDIANZHISHI。SUIRANZHEIZHONGGUANXINSHIWUKEHOUFEIDE,DANTAMENZAIWENDEGUOCHENGZHONGBUZHUZHONGXUNWENJIQIAO,YOUBUHUIDENGDAIHAIZISIKAO、HUIYI,QIJIEGUOKENENGJIUSHIHAIZIBUXIANGSHUO,HUOBUZHIDAOCONGHESHUOQI。

有一个《牵着蜗牛去散步》的故事:上帝让我牵着一只蜗牛去散步。可是蜗牛爬得实在是太慢了,我不断地催促它,吓它,责备它。它却用抱歉的目光看着我,仿佛说:“我已经很尽力了!”我又气又急,就去拉它,扯它,甚至踢它。蜗牛受了伤,反而爬得更慢,后来干脆趴在那里不动了。而筋疲力尽的我也只好看着它干瞪眼。无奈之余,我不禁有些奇怪:上帝为什么叫我牵着一只蜗牛去散步呢?又有一天,上帝还派我牵着那只蜗牛去散步。看着它蜷缩的身体、惊恐的眼睛,我不禁起了怜悯之心。我不再催它,逼它,干脆跟在它的身后,任蜗牛慢慢地向前爬。咦,学前教育网,这时候,我突然闻到了花香,原来这是花园。接着,我听见了虫鸣鸟叫,感到了温暖的微风,还看见了满天的星斗。陶醉之余,无意中向前一看,呀,蜗牛已爬出好远。等我跑步赶上它时,它用一种胜利者的姿态迎接我。未等我开口,它已经带着自信,奋力向前方爬去……教育孩子的过程是不是也像牵着蜗牛散步呢?

策略

RUGUOHONGHONGDEMAMAHEHAIZIJIAOLIUSHIHUANYIZHONGSHUOFAHUISHIZENYANGDEXIAOGUONI?

HONGHONGJIANMAMALAILEHENKAIXIN,YIXIAZIPUDAOLEMAMADEHUAIZHONG。

MAMA:“NG!BAOBEI,RANGMAMAKANKAN!(ZHUANZHUDIKANLEHAIZIYIHUIER)JINTIANZAIYOUERYUANYIDINGWANDEHENKUAILEBA。”

趣发彩票 HONGHONG:“……DUIYA!WOHEXIAOPENGYOUMENYIQIWANDAJIMU,WOMENDALEYITIAOYOUZHANGYOUKUANDEMALU,HAIDALEXUDUODEJIAOTONGGONGJU,RANGCHEZIZAIMALUSHANG‘WUWUWUWU’DIKAI,KEHAOWANLE!”

MAMA:“NEINIJINTIANHAIXUELESHENMEBENLINGYA?” (YIJIUSHIZHUANZHUDIKAN,ZIXIDITING。)

趣发彩票 HONGHONG:“WOHAIXUECHANGLEYISHOUGENI,SHI……”HAIZIMENYIDINGHUIYOUSHUOBUWANDEGAOXINGHENG。

QISHIZHISHIJIAZHANGHUANYIGEFANGSHIWEN,DUODENGYIDENGHAIZIDEFANYING,JIUNENGGOUYINQIHAIZIDESHUOHUAXINGQU。RANGHAIZIZHIDAOCONGHEERDABINGQIEYOUHUAKESHUO,JIANGSHUDEYUWANGZIRANJIUHUIDADAZENGJIA。ZHEIBUJINYOUZHUYUJIAZHANGMENDUIHAIZIYITIANDEXUEXI、HUODONGQINGKUANGYOUQUFACAIPIAODELEJIE,HAIYOUZHUYUYOUERYUYANBIAODANENGLIDEFAZHAN。RUGUOHAIZIZAIHUIDADESHIHOUFUDAISHANGTAZIJIDEJIANJIE,SIWEIHUIGENGJIAHUOYUE。

SUOYI,JIAZHANGMEN,QINGNIMEN“MANXIALAI”,JIANSHAOJIAOYUDEFUZAOYUGONGLI,RANGHAIZIMENCHONGFENGANSHOU、TIYANSHENGHUO,BUJIGONGJINLI,DENGDENGHAIZI。DANGNIMANXIALAI,MANXIALAI,ZAIMANXIALAIDESHIHOU,WOMENDEHAIZIJIUHUIKUAIQILAI,KUAIQILAI,GENGKUAIQILAI……

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